Last week I had sex with a guy for the first time. Unfortunately, it was just a…

…hook-up kind of deal. We really didn’t know each other all that well, and I’m just wondering, should I get tested for STDs? Or wait? Or no, not at all? I’m really confused!

This is a really great and important question!

It’s good to know that when it comes to STIs, there are four modes of transmission.  They are…

  • Blood
  • Semen
  • Vaginal fluids
  • Skin to skin contact

In order for someone to contract an STI, they would need to engage in sexual activity with a person who already has an STI in which one or more of these modes would come into play. Although STIs can be common, remember that they are preventable!

STIs can be transmitted through oral sex, anal sex, and vaginal sex. Many people think that because oral sex isn’t necessarily penetration, there is little to no risk. But the fact is, you can get all STIs (except for pubic lice) when engaging in oral sex with someone who has the infection.

But the good news is that there are ways to prevent STI transmission from happening! Using a condom for oral sex on a penis will help drastically reduce your risk of transmitting an STI.  If oral sex is being performed on the vagina or anus, a dental dam can be used to help reduce your risk also! You can pick up free condoms and dental dams at Teen Clinic!

If you are engaging in any sexual activity where sperm may come in contact with the vagina, in addition to the possibility of contracting an STI, there is also risk of pregnancy when having unprotected sex. Because both the risk of contracting an STI and/or pregnancy are so high, it’s important to use a condom correctly, consistently, and 100% of the time!

It’s important to know though that 75% of people with vaginas and 50% of people with penises show no symptoms of the infection! So even if you or your partners don’t have any symptoms of an infection, it’s still a good idea to get tested periodically.  Some people get tested every time they have a new partner, every 6 months, or even once a year based on their risk factors.

In the meantime, if you think you may have an infection, it’s a good idea to abstain from sex until you know for sure. Make an appointment at Teen Clinic as soon as possible.You can test for STIs 14 days after sex to get an accurate result.

Get plenty of sleep, drink lots of water, and eat a balanced diet.  Help your body stay as healthy as possible! And try not to worry. Seeing a doctor is a great way to find out for sure. You’ll have the chance to ask lots of questions and get any treatment you need.

To make an appointment at Teen Clinic or to get tested, give us a call the day before you’d like to come in.  All services are either free or low-cost to those under 20.