So my boyfriend was dry-humping me and there may have been some pre-cum, but no ejaculating. But halfway through he puts on a condom and continues dry-humping me and then puts the tip of his penis in me. Is there a chance I may get pregnant?

In order for someone to get pregnant, semen needs to come into direct contact with the vagina. But even if someone does not ejaculate in the vagina, there is still a risk of pregnancy. If someone ejaculates on the outside of the body but still near the vagina, sperm can travel in to the vagina, putting them at risk of pregnancy. This also means that even if just the tip of the penis entered the vagina, pregnancy can happen. Because a condom was used when the tip was inserted, there is less of a chance of pregnancy from when this happened.

If someone is having unprotected sex (including naked dry-humping), but they don’t ejaculate in or near their  partner, pregnancy can still be possible as well because of something called pre-cum (or pre-ejaculate). Pre-cum is something that everyone with a penis does when arousal happens. Pre-cum—officially called pre-ejaculate—is a clear, sticky fluid released by the penis between the beginning of arousal and ejaculation.  Doctors believe that pre-ejaculate helps make the urethra and the vagina less acidic, allowing sperm to survive longer.  Some people release a small amount of pre-ejaculate; others may release quite a bit.

Although pre-ejaculate does not contain sperm when it is produced, it can pick up leftover sperm in the urethra. This means that pre-ejaculate can contain sperm when it leaves the body, creating a risk for pregnancy.  Pre-ejaculate can also transmit STIs.

Because the penis didn’t penetrate the vagina without a condom in your case, pregnancy is less likely, but can still happen.

The best way to avoid pregnancy is to use forms of birth control consistently and correctly. Teen Clinic offers all different types of birth control. Call us at 303-442-5160 if you have more questions or want to make an appointment!